Building a Life, One Step at a Time: My Journey as an Immigrant in Canada
- Lesley Nademi
- Mar 1
- 5 min read
The Journey of Becoming Home in Canada
When I first arrived in Canada, my only prayer was to meet good people—those who would nurture my soul, support me, and help guide me along this new path. Back in August of 2018, at 23 years old, I stepped into a world filled with hope and dreams, but also uncertainty and challenge. I didn't know what to expect, yet I was determined to create a life that reflected my values and ambitions.
Early Struggles and Determination
My early days in Canada were far from easy. Adjusting to a new culture meant long nights and early mornings. I would often work night shifts, coming home as late as 11 or even 2 in the morning, only to wake up at 5 am to catch the bus to school. Balancing full-time studies, work, and the challenge of learning English—my second language—was exhausting. There were times I barely got enough sleep to function, and the pressure of juggling everything seemed almost too much to bear.
Yet, in those challenging moments, I clung to the belief that every struggle was a stepping stone. I reminded myself daily why I had chosen this journey and who I was striving to become. The difficulties of the beginning were daunting, but they also built the foundation for a life of resilience and growth.
Finding Support and Lifelong Lessons
One of the most transformative parts of my Canadian experience was the people I met along the way. Early in my journey, I crossed paths with Yousef, another immigrant who understood the hurdles of starting over in a new country. His kindness and willingness to help taught me the practical skills and cultural nuances essential for thriving in Canada. Yousef’s guidance not only made my own transition smoother, but it inspired me to research and learn more so I could eventually pay it forward to others facing similar challenges.
Over time, I met many kind friends and supportive managers who believed in me. Each of these relationships was a reminder that compassion and solidarity exist in abundance. They helped me realize that the immigrant journey isn’t one we face alone, but together—with shared dreams, struggles, and triumphs.
The Fruits of Our Labor
Today, I can proudly say that the hard work has paid off. Now, Yousef and I—both immigrants—can look back and say, “We did good.” We have built lives that reflect our dreams and aspirations. We enjoy the comforts of a good house, the flexibility to manage our time, and the luxury of getting enough sleep after long days. Our lives are a testament to the power of perseverance.
Beyond the material comforts, what fills my heart the most is the ability to give back to the community. I have reached a point where I can share my experiences and help others navigate the complexities of settling in a new country. And perhaps most importantly, I finally have time for myself, a precious gift after years of relentless hustle.
Every struggle in the beginning, every sleepless night and every challenging day, now seems worth it when I see the quality of life I have built. The journey was never meant to be easy, but every obstacle overcame has led to a deeper understanding of who I am and what I truly value.
Building a New Life and Embracing Opportunities
Canada has given me so much more than a new address; it has given me a fresh start, a community of wonderful people, and the courage to pursue my dreams. I learned that self-care isn’t just about the simple acts of daily living—it’s also about setting healthy boundaries, being kind to oneself, and recognizing when to ask for help. Being an immigrant taught me that success isn’t just measured by where you live, but by the strength and love you cultivate within yourself and share with others.
Living here, I have experienced both hardship and happiness. I have embraced the challenges and learned that every setback is just a setup for a greater comeback. I now understand that true fulfillment comes from balancing work, relationships, and personal time. It’s a delicate balance, one that I’ve worked hard to master, and every little victory along the way has added to the richness of my life.
A Message of Hope for Fellow Immigrants
To anyone embarking on this journey, I want to share this: the road may be tough, and the challenges can sometimes feel overwhelming, but trust me, better days will come. Every hardship has a purpose, every struggle teaches a lesson, and every step forward is a victory in itself. The journey of being an immigrant is filled with moments of uncertainty, but it’s also brimming with opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and happiness.
Take heart in knowing that every late night, every early morning, and every moment of self-doubt eventually gives way to days filled with warmth, love, and a sense of belonging. Embrace the challenges, for they are the very things that build your strength. Celebrate the small victories and always remember to give yourself grace along the way.
Celebrating a Life Fully Lived
Today, as I reflect on my journey from that uncertain August in 2018 to where I am now, I am filled with gratitude. I have learned that life as an immigrant in Canada isn’t just about surviving, it’s about thriving. It’s about building a life that honours your hard work, cherishes your dreams, and respects the community that helped shape you.
The path was never straight or easy, but every twist and turn brought me closer to the person I am meant to be. With good friends, supportive managers, co workers, and a community that cares, I have found not only a new home but also a new sense of purpose.
And as I look forward to the future, I am excited by the endless possibilities that lie ahead.
Every struggle, every sleepless night, every challenge faced in the beginning was worth it. Because now, I live a life filled with love, stability, and the freedom to enjoy every moment. I hope my story inspires you to hold on during tough times and trust that every effort you make is paving the way for a brighter, more fulfilling future.
In the end, being an immigrant in Canada has taught me that the journey is as important as the destination. It’s about building resilience, nurturing relationships, and finding your own version of happiness, even when the road seems impossible. Trust in your journey, embrace your unique path, and remember: every challenge is a stepping stone to the beautiful life you are meant to live.
"Oh Canada, My home and Native Land"

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